Pollard ‘incident’ spotlights a larger problem

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I was sitting near a former varsity coach and his wife at a recent game, and the topic came up that fans at high school games are getting more bold, and more nasty, in their comments toward officials.

About four rows above us was a Red Oak parent making a spectacle of himself. Besides thinking every call was wrong on our end of the court, he crossed the line when he shouted, “Keep talking number 40,” targeting a specific player on the opposing team.

These are teenage kids, for crying out loud, and he’s spouting off to them? Nice modeling for your other children. Maybe when your team is getting slammed 60-26, you might clam up a little!

I’d been making some notes all season on the topic, because I concurred that it’s getting very brazen in high school gyms. Probably a combination of witnessing such behavior on the many college games on TV every night, and the escalating over-involvement of some parents in their kids’ activities.

The worst I’d seen this year, besides the nerdy-looking guy from Red Oak who probably never laced up a pair of basketball shoes, was an Atlantic girls basketball parent.

In the first quarter alone he probably yelled out 40 loud instructions to his daughter, or whiny complaints about officiating. Jeff Mostek, operating the official scorebook, turned around once to restore some peace to the situation and said quietly, “Relax.”

“You relax!” the guy retorted. “I have every right to talk to my daughter!”

Well, actually, the traditional sportsmanship message read at the start of almost any sporting event in Iowa encourages you to support your team, and respect the officials and coaches. Know your role.

Supporting the coaches means just that — let them do the coaching.

I’m sure the girl was about to die, hearing her dad’s incessant voice in an otherwise quiet gym, spouting off instructions like she had no idea how to play the game.

She’s been in practice day after day, for a coach who at that moment was seated at the bench trying to convey his own set of instructions. If a coach feels an illegal screen was set against your daughter, I’m sure he’ll let the official know. You don’t have to try to ignite an international incident by standing up and yelling at the top of your lungs about it.

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